In this episode of “Free Your Voice,” hosted by Dustin Plantholt and sponsored by Orion Messenger, listeners can expect an enthralling conversation with Dr. Stan Tatkin, a best-selling author and renowned clinician.
Dr. Tatkin, known for his pioneering work in couple therapy and the psychobiological approach to couple therapy (PACT), shares his journey from his early days in the mental health field to becoming an influential voice in relationship counseling. The episode begins with Dr. Tatkin reflecting on his initial foray into neuroscience, infant brain development, and the autonomic nervous system, which laid the groundwork for his later successes.
Listeners will hear Dr. Tatkin discuss his personal and professional life, including the profound impact of his divorce and subsequent remarriage to his junior high crush, Tracy. He explains how these experiences inspired his focus on secure functioning relationships, emphasizing the importance of reducing interpersonal stress and fostering a sense of safety and security in partnerships.
Throughout the episode, Dr. Tatkin delves into the nuances of attachment theory, the biological underpinnings of human connections, and the concept of earned love and respect in relationships. He candidly talks about the challenges of his first marriage, the lessons learned from regret, and the transformative power of secure functioning in his current relationship.
Dr. Tatkin also explores his childhood, describing himself as an introverted, imaginative, and sensitive child. He shares how his upbringing, marked by his parents’ busy careers and the influence of a strict housekeeper, shaped his early experiences and sense of self.
Listeners will gain valuable insights into Dr. Tatkin’s approach to relationship therapy, his thoughts on modern technology’s impact on relationships, and his ongoing commitment to helping couples achieve secure, collaborative partnerships. The episode is filled with personal anecdotes, practical advice, and Dr. Tatkin’s unique perspective on love, attachment, and the importance of compassion in long-term relationships.
Join us for an engaging and insightful episode as Dr. Stan Tatkin shares his remarkable journey, the lessons he’s learned, and his vision for the future of couple therapy.